Wednesday, 4 July 2012

LESSONS OF LIFE


Leave my husband!
As an undergraduate with different types of friends, Susan was faced with pressure from friends to toe their line in order to be able to meet up with the ‘happening babes’ on campus but she had so many things to consider in making up her mind.
She is from a strict Christian home with low income and to make matters worse (according to her), she is the first of five children which means she must make ends meet at all cost to be able to fend for her younger ones in life.
The benefits outweigh the risk, so she joined Rita and Funmi to have fun. Susan started living a double life with different wardrobes for campus and home. At home, she is the obedient and bible-clutching daughter of a clergy man but becomes a disgrace on campus.
Susan did not stop at dating three young men at the same time, she also had affair with married men to the chagrin of the friends who introduced her to this wayward life style. Her study started suffering; a first class student gradually dropped to third class.
In her second year, Susan informed her parents she was going to Kaduna State for a compulsory field work where as she wanted to accompany Bode (one of her boyfriends) on a business trip to Dubai.
She returned with goodies to the envy of her friends but it was short-lived. Bode’s wife came calling at the campus with two hefty looking men who beat the daylight out of her with a warning to stay away from Bode.
The embarrassment was so much that her friends started avoiding her. To make matters worse, she took ill, went home and returned weeks later looking pale and emaciated. The rumour started going round that she must had contracted a sexually transmitted disease.
It became difficult for her to concentrate in class even as her ‘benefactors’ abandoned her. To be able to really rest, Susan made up her mind to spend some weekends at home but, on one of such, her mother invited her to a church programme in a nearby town.
During the programme, she ran into Tope (another boyfriend of hers) and tried to avoid him but he came after her beside her mother. “You this shameless girl, so you are still running after other people’s husband? The beating that Bode’s wife gave you will be nothing compared with what I will do to you if you don’t stay away from Tope,” a woman came to shout on her to everyone’s hearing.
 Her mother left awkwardly and could not tell her husband at home. Susan went back to campus, locked herself up and cried herself to sleep. Susan had brought shame to her family, she lost respect on campus and her grades had deteriorated to the level that she is staring at an extra year.

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